Saturday, March 1, 2014

Bun in the Oven

I know these blogs are few and far between, but again, I have this mainly because I knew I wanted a place I could put funny/cute stories of our kids to look back on and remember someday.  The good news is, I am 15 weeks pregnant!!  Which means in the near future there just might be more frequent blogging action.  We shall see ;)

It's still pretty darn surreal to me that we are having a baby.  It's pretty much the most exciting and terrifying thing in the whole world, both at the same time.  I have always, always, wanted to be a mommy.  I am super lucky to have found a guy who wanted that too...after we had our own fun, of course.  Seriously though, this is our fourth year of marriage, and I look back on it, and think "I cannot believe we've done so much".  Weren't we just in college, hopping the fence to each others houses like a few months ago?  From traveling across the world, to buying our first home, settling careers and having adventures with our dogs...it's been good.  Our dogs, I tell you...they are going to have to learn they are not the babies of our lives anymore.  I don't think we've made that easy on them!  But hey, that's another story.

This teeny little peanut is so loved already.  I look at my ultrasound picture and say, AWE look how Cuuuuute!!!  My mom brings me back to reality "Marta, I assure you they are even cuter outside of the womb."  haha.  Goodness.  And 15 weeks already!  How that has flown by!  I don't even know where the first trimester went.  I mean I am almost 4 months?  What.  

We haven't even bought anything yet for the nugget.  But I have my reasons.  A., I don't know if it's a boy or girl yet!  I am a planner, and cannot wait for 20 weeks to solve this mystery.  I need to know so that I can organize the nursery in the appropriate theme, and buy those cute little ruffled bottom onesies OR bow ties.  Believe me, there's not a lot of gender neutral stuff out there.  And also, B., let's be real...it's just as much of a surprise at 20 weeks as it is at delivery!  

Probably the sweetest thing though, is this little pumpkin received his/her first gift from the great grandma!  Drew's grandma is absolutely precious.  She is so thrilled to be a great grandma, it makes my heart happy.  She sent us a package, and lo and behold, inside was a surprise for baby Eli!  The first baby blanket.  It's so soft and beautiful and perfect.  I know, it's just a blanket, but it's MY baby's blanket.  That makes it different.  




My grandma, is of course excited too, but with about 20 years on Drew's grandma, she has her own little clan of great grandbabies already!  I should count them all up...I think it's 12 great grandkids!  So of course, she's excited, but I think it's something a little special for the Eli side.  We are making a lot of firsts on that side of the family.  First great grandbaby, first nephew/niece, first grandbaby, first GREAT grandnephew/neice...I have a feeling this one's going to be spoiled.

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

My journal from our trip to Nepal, October 2013

We had the fabulous opportunity to travel to Nepal this year, and while there, I tried to enter a little journal entry every day in my iphone app called Day One Journal.  I'm going to copy and paste all the entries to this blog, for safekeeping :)  It's nice to look back and remember all that we did in years to come.

October 15th:
Two hours to go until my 8 hour layover in Singapore is up! I'm so close to Nepal I can taste it. This definitely wasn't the quickest route to travel, although one of the cheaper ways. From Seattle to San Fran, to Seoul, Korea and now Singapore …total time of something like 36 hours!
I must admit though, traveling to the other side of the world completely by myself does ring a sense of accomplishment to it. While I wish Drew came with me from the beginning, I am feeling quite worldly and experienced doing this on my own ;)
Most everyone (so far) has all spoken English, and been very friendly. Not sure if that will change in Kathmandu. Probably. On the 12 hour flight to Seoul, I sat next to a nice young man who was visiting his long distance gf in the states, who showed me how to work the remote for the tv in front of me. Glad he did, as I ended up watching roughly around 6 movies. They hand out these warm wet cloths on Singapore air, and I didn't know whether to wipe my hands, blot my face, or what was the point really…so I believe I did a bit of both. It ended up being quite nice really, think how slimy your face gets after 12 hours. From now on when I fly, I shall ask where is my warm cloth handed to me with tongs?!
They have these little stations throughout the airport that are supposed to massage your calves….the sign is quite interesting, I had to do a double take. I mean, who wouldn't want a little “pain with their pleasure”?
Really looking forward to get to my hotel and settle in. Let's hope my driver is there and that I get through security ok!
81° Mostly Cloudy
Changi, Singapore, Singapore

 October 16th:
Well, I made it to my hotel! And what an experience it was. Thankfully I met two other young women traveling alone on my last flight, and the three of us ended up sticking together like white on rice. One was 20 yrs old, coming to Kathmandu from Alaska for two months to volunteer at a (different) hospital, then do some trekking with her dad who was coming later. She was tall and blonde and so young to be doing this on her own, so I immediately felt protective of her. I blame Erin. The other girl was 25 and originally born in India but is now an engineer living in Australia, and was coming to trek to Everest base camp by herself (but with a guide and a porter). Needless to say we shuffled through customs, immigration and baggage claim in a pack, which I was glad for.
Immigration was easy. Walking towards customs with these two huge blue bags that look way too official was making me nervous. There were people in line to put their bags on the scanner, and one officer kind of waved one of the girls I was with around this part to go on through. I put my head down, didn't make eye contact and followed like I had somewhere really important to be. One guy kind of stopped to feel my bags, but I acted like I didn't notice and just kept going. It worked, they didn't care enough to bother searching us..so outside we went, and we were free! It was here that I parted ways with my new friends (although I never knew their names) and found Niraj holding a sign with my name on it! Hallelujah he was there and I wasn't stranded at the airport!
As soon as you step off the plane in to the airport and in to Kathmandu, it is noisy chaos everywhere. People are bumping in to you, shouting, horns honking everywhere, so I was very glad to see my guy waiting for me. He told me he was there for two hours! Gosh so loyal.
The ride to the hotel was slightly terrifying, but also kind of amazing. I felt like I had plopped right in to the center of busy India. Crammed housing painted crazy colors, trash all over the sometimes paved and sometimes not street, cows literally laying in the middle of the traffic, and dogs too that you have to weave around. No lanes really, that I could tell…just mobs of cars weaving around each other and even more motorcycles/scooters with families of five people (little babies too!) and no helmets. Talk about culture shock. This guy with a huge cart of chickens held up traffic for a while, cars were not happy about that. Every single car honks it's horn every few minutes or so. It's loud, it's dirty, it's confusing, it's vibrant and glorious.
I'm trying so hard not to fall asleep, I want to stay up to switch my schedule around to this time zone but I am exhausted. Maybe just a nap and then dinner and then bed. Tomorrow I'm not sure what I'll do…I have a whole day before the rest of my team gets here. Meeting Sudip to set up the trek, so that will be good. Oh and my bathroom. My bathroom is the same size as the rest of the room! It's huge! And this big round wooden door is the entry to the bathroom. Just thought that was neat.
27.7227° N, 85.391° E

 October 17th:
Mental note to self: next time they ask if you would like to eat lunch outside in the garden…just say no!!!! Freakin monkeys! Sure, they look cute and seem all tame/domesticated from the way they are walking around people EVERYWHERE, but when one is hungry, boy look out. I definitely just had a near death experience.
I decided to sit outside on the little veranda overlooking the pool and some gardens, when out of the blue a monkey starts walking on the roof and peaking its head to look down on me. Didn't think much of it. There was a group of people from Holland next to me who had a bag of bananas they were munching on though, so I was more nervous for them. Really people? Bananas? Bad idea. My delicious sesame chicken lunch arrives, and I eat the whole thing. All of a sudden, this monkey lunges towards the group next to me. One lady picks up her chair to shoo him away and he walks away but doesn't look afraid of the chair at all! A couple Nepalese people who work here show up with the biggest stick I've ever seen, and bang it around at the monkey, which seems to make him pissed off! He turns around and hightails it right at me in teeth baring fury. I shriek, of course, stand up and shield myself with my chair, while the monkey lands on my empty plate and it falls and shatters on the floor. The monkey is now standing there, seriously not afraid of us and our mere chairs and stick, looking angry as heck. My heart was racing at this point, but I went and stood by the group of blondes from Holland, thinking a group was safer than by myself. One waiter managed to get the monkey to run away by banging the stick some more, but he didn't go very willingly. I've heard about these monkeys attacking people when upset, and having rabies etc. so I was pretty stressed out at this point. Decided to go back to my room ASAP (with the escort of the waiter!) and never eat my meal outdoors ever again!!! Seriously. I still cringe when I think about how close that monkey came to biting me!
In other news, met Sudip today at my hotel, and he laid out the plan for our trek and safari adventure! I can't wait for drew to get here and to have a blast experiencing it all with him. I just can't believe that tomorrow we will be screening people at the hospital, and doing surgeries the day after that. I am pretty nervous for what it entails - for learning the ropes, and knowing what to do, etc. I think we will be very busy every day with a lot of people wanting the surgeries!
The rest of today is not too exciting…just going to eat dinner at the hotel, read up on what we'll be doing in Chitwan and Pokhara, and hiding from monkeys of course.
27.7227° N, 85.391° E

 October 18th:
Gotta make this quick as I've got to get some sleep before surgery tomorrow! Crazy busy day! We met at the hospital at 0900, and got to work setting up our supplies, making patient charts, etc. The rest of the day consisted of patients coming in to be evaluated by Carl and Jen (surgeons), who decided whether they needed surgery, a cast, physical therapy, etc. Those who were candidates for surgery then came to myself and Mike (ED nurse and doc) who did a quick eval of vitals, history, medical exam to make sure they were healthy, then to anesthesiology's table (Stin, Martha and Ryan) who further decided if they were candidates for surgery.
We were busy busy busy at work seeing what felt like a lot of patients until about 6:30. We've got several OR cases set up for tomorrow, as well as will be doing additional screenings on more people. It will be a fun day tomorrow, but I'm pretty nervous for the OR stuff! On our way out this evening we passed by the ER…it's one room with three stretchers lying side by side! So crazy!
I am beyond blessed to be here and can't even describe the experience of even just the first couple days. The team I am with is just full of the most amazing, hilarious, talented, smart, most interesting people! I'm really the only nurse on the team, which, is intimidating but I think it will be ok. These docs have all done several if not many mission trips like this throughout the world, and are very down to earth and outdoorsy - most have trekked Nepal before. We all went out to dinner tonight at a very nice place in Thamel (don't remember the name of the restaurant). I got the chicken tikka masala and all of us had an Everest beer to enjoy, which is a beer brewed in Nepal that is quite good! Laughs all around. And now, sleep sounds amazing. Like I said - super nervous for tomorrow!!!
Nepal

 October 19th:
What an awesome first day of surgery. We walked to the hospital, which is always an experience in itself…every corner you think you're going to get run over by a car or motorcycle. We got to the hospital around 8:30 and started setting up for the first case. There's a little tiny “pre-op” room where we wheel in the patients who will have surgery that day. I ended up using the IV supplies from the staff there, because apparently anesthesia brought IV catheters but no tubing, and their tubing did not connect to what we had. So, I got to learn a brand new way of starting IV's. Or, as the Nepalese nurses call it “opening the vein”. The catheter is very long, and you hold it with three fingers instead of two. The tubing has a rubber section that connects to it (just like in old movies). Also, the IV fluids are all in a glass bottle rather than plastic. I got the hang of it all.
After pre-op, the hospital had their own staff scrubbing for the cases, which I was grateful for…I ended up circulating a lot, grabbing extra supples when needed, etc. Also followed the patients to the PACU with Mike to do little evals on how they were recovering. The anesthesia was all blocks rather than general, so the patients didn't have much waking up to do.
The staff and patients are just so easy going here, so nice and appreciative. It was such a fun atmosphere and makes me want to go home and look for an OR job. ;). (J/j) Although, I think in the states things are probably pretty different! We are all meeting at 7 pm tonight to go out to dinner at a place called Third Eye in Thamel, then another big day tomorrow!
70° Mostly Cloudy
Bagmati, Nepal

 October 20th:
Yesterday we had four cases in the OR, each a couple hours long, so it felt like a very long and full day! My role is definitely a little bit of everything, and so I keep jumping between starting IV's (“opening veins”) in pre-op, screening new walk ins, and circulating the OR. There is always something to do, which is why I found myself not getting lunch yesterday. It's so worth it though, it's not like that doesn't happen at home in the ED, either ;). Nobody here complains. Everyone is just so happy to be here, and we figure if the patients living without clean water and walking on painful deformities don't complain, how can we?
One of the best parts is visiting the kids (and adults) after surgery in the post op ward. Just to see them smiling, give them a toy or gift, and make sure they are comfortable. Carl and Jen, two of the podiatrists were saying how rewarding it is to see some of the people they operated on last year and the year before, just to see their progress and how much better they are doing.
We came home last night and had dinner at the hotel, and had a bit of an earlier night which was kind of nice. We've been working hard! We also had our first power outage yesterday! Apparently this happens very frequently in Kathmandu - good thing I borrowed a flashlight from Kristi and Mike!
Nepal

 October 22nd:
On Monday after surgery, mike, kristi, Tom Chang and I all went to the largest stupa in Nepal, called Bodhnath. Stupas are the Buddhists holy structures, each part of it having meaning and significance. What an incredible thing. I had never seen anything like it! HUGE white dome with a large tower on top and three eyes looking down on everyone. The location itself was so peaceful, filled with Buddhist monks praying, meditating, and doing different rituals. Everyone had to walk clockwise around the stupa, I can't remember why but it has to do something with their beliefs, obviously. Huge strings of prayer flags fly from the top of this thing, and there are prayer wheels that you spin to send off prayers. The whole atmosphere was a neat experience - just impressively large, beautiful colors, and peaceful. We ended up sitting on the top of a building at a rooftop cafe where you could see down in to Bodhnath and out around Kathmandu. So fun!
After the stupa, the three of us went over to Hotel Tibet, where we had our team dinner. It was very fancy, very opposite of what I've seen so far of Kathmandu. The food was delicious and the whiskey was free. The staff from NOH were all there, plus our team, plus the team that went on to Nepalgunj. Everyone just had a great time talking and bonding and sharing experiences. Some of our team ended up having a night cap of the Nepali liquor at the bar at hotel Tibet. Its called raksi (sp?) and it is made out of rice and tastes like rubbing alcohol. The people here have no drinking age at all. It is common here for kids to drink, and some castes are known for drinking more than others. The caste system pretty much still exists here…your last name is your caste, and some are still low, some are the wealthier, higher class. All based on your name! Anyways, yesterday we had a surgery on an 11 year old girl and anesthesia had a hard time keeping her sedated. The Nepalese anesthesia assistant said its because her caste is known for drinking and she probably drinks a lot. At 11! Along with no drinking age, there is also no child labor laws, so kids work here too.
Yesterday was actually our last day of surgeries. We spent the full day at the hospital, and after rounding on patients and handing out toys we came back to Norling. Everyone ended up hanging out by the pool, even after it got dark, drinking some Tuborg and singing along to Jason playing the guitar! We had dinner at our hotel as well - I had the sizzling chicken experience, where your plate is smoking and sizzling up a storm. So amazing. I am definitely eating much better than I thought I would here. But, I think once we start trekking it will be lentils and rice, which is what I was thinking it would be the whole time!
What an amazing time I'm having though. Just traveling to a country all alone, that takes two days to get here, working with people I didn't know going in to it, I am so glad I did it. It makes me feel good that I could do it. And then not to mention getting to experience this place, and these people, and knowing you are doing good, life changing procedures and medical care that they wouldn't normally get. It's amazing and humbling.
57° Mostly Clear
Bagmati, Nepal

 October 23rd:
Yesterday was the final day of working with the Healing The Children team! What an absolute fabulous bunch of people. We started the day off at the hospital, where we did a final set of rounds on the post op patients, making sure they were eating/drinking ok, pain management, making sure they all had crutches. I also pushed a final bolus of bupivicaine in to a couple of the patient's catheters for nerve blocks, then D/C'd the catheters. It was so wonderful to see all of the patients sitting up, smiling, taking photos with us. The people here are not complainers and are so appreciative. They are hesitant to take pain meds and would prefer not to. They are brave, sweet, gentle people. I will miss the Nepalese nurses, too. They were all very welcoming to us, and took me in like one of their own. The nurses travel to work each day (about an hour in a very crowded “bus”) for six days a week, and get paid $200 a month. And that's a pretty good wage I think. There are people in Nepal who make like 80 cents a day. Just amazing.
The docs had an opportunity to give short little lectures to the staff of NOH, on things like new surgical techniques, assessments, etc. That was nice to see - I feel like I've learned more about foot and ankle stuff than I'll ever want or need to know ;). Unless I decide my calling is now an orthopedic surgical nurse in podiatry, instead of the ER!
We also had a ceremony at the hospital for the staff and for the HTC team, each member was presented with a gift and a letter of appreciation. The hospital's gift to each of us were little oil lamps, that had the elephant goddess on it, which you could use for a candle or a vase. Very pretty. Carl gave a nice speech dedicating a plaque to an anesthesia resident who came with the team last year and actually died coming home in a surfing accident in Australia. It was very moving. He also said very nice things about each person, and the hard work and dedication we all gave. Oh how I wish to come back next year!
The rest of the day was a bit of a free day. Went to a Tibetan refugee camp, where people who have fleed from Tibet are making a life for themselves by handcrafting wool rugs. Gorgeous, intricate rugs. I bought a small one, with designs which mean longevity and prosperity. Next stop was the monkey temple! Not really called monkey temple, but Swayambhonath, it's another holy Buddhist site that is completely overrun by monkies! Given my near death experience in the beginning of the trip, I was a bit apprehensive, but these monkeys turned out to be ok. Plus, I didnt have food this time!
Dinner last night was at Fire and Ice, an Italian place in Thamel where they had real coffee rather than instant stuff!! Highlight of the night! So fun to chill and hangout with the team one last time, at dinner and at the hotel. The guitar was broken out again, and we all sang along to some songs, played a funny game courtesy of the anesthesia guys, and really unwound after our week here. Also, drew is here! He got in last night and stayed up for a bit to meet people, and now we are on a bus to Chitwan! Our adventure awaits!
0° N, 0° E

 October 24th:
It's 6 am on Friday morning, and it's time to write some stuff down! Yesterday drew and I arrived in Chitwan, the national forest in Nepal after a 7 hour bus ride. The bus ride wound around the narrow bumpy hills of the valley, nearly dumping us over the edge of the mountain, we were sure of it! We got here around 2, where a man picked us up in a rickety little truck and took us down to Wild Horizon guest house. After lunch, we met our guide who took us on a little stroll through a village in Chitwan of the Tharu people (the traditional people of the Terai). The Terai is the flatlands of Nepal, the southern terrain where they grow and harvest a lot of crops. Mainly rice.
We stopped and visited a baby elephant yesterday! The guide said that wild male elephants wander in to their stables and father the babies. They used to keep a male as well but the wild ones from the surrounding jungle killed it so that they could be with the females. Crazy! After this we walked down to Rapti river that winds around Chitwan and watched the sunset which was beautiful. We spotted a crocodile! Luckily, we were a safe enough distance away that it looks like a log in the water in my pictures, but pretty cool to see with the binoculars!
The last event of the night was going to a cultural dance show of the Tharu. It was pretty impressive, with drums, and sticks. Drew and I even joined them on stage at the end to dance…that was entertaining. Dinner at the hotel, a new Nepalese beer that I hadn't tried before called Ghorka, then bed time under our handy mosquito net. The food here is nothing like the Grand Norling…in fact, I feel like I was quite spoiled that past week. But hey, that's what makes it most fun! All part of the experience.
27.5769° N, 84.4994° E

 October 25th:
So it is the morning of Saturday the 26th, and drew and I have just loaded up on another long bus ride to Pokhara. Yesterday was a jam packed crazy fun day. Every day in Nepal, I've been getting up around 5:00 or 5:30. It's just so easy to wake up early here! I don't know if it's the time difference or what, but we got up early, had a breakfast at the hotel, and headed down to the river for canoeing. The canoes are very large, hollowed out from trees just like Native Americans did. There were about 12 people in each canoe, and we drifted pretty peacefully down the river. There was a lot of fog this early in the morning, and it made it really pretty. No crocodile viewing this time, the most exciting thing was probably a bird the size of a small person.
We landed on shore and fearlessly headed off in to the jungle on foot. with our guide toting a large stick to fend off animals! The most exciting part of our jungle walk was coming across a rhino sleeping in the grass. We basically tiptoed while getting a good look at him, because wild rhinos are known for charging and killing humans. Drew and I picked our climbing trees just in case it woke up! We also saw wild boar, lots of deer with huge antlers, tons of birds. No bears or tigers or leapords, but that's ok. It's super exciting to be walking through the jungle and to hear all the sounds of the animals around you, with just a scrawny guy and a stick to protect you! Apparently, during the monsoon season Chitwan comes alive with leeches. Well, the monsoon season has just ended and drew and I both found five or six leeches attached to our pants, to our ankles and shirts. Sooo creepy! I was not a fan. You feel a little pinch, then look down and see this leech sucking your blood. You have to pull very hard to get them off! If you pull them off, it takes a piece of skin with it and you don't stop bleeding for a long time. Our guide says it is best to let them be, they get swollen with blood and then hop off of you when they are done. We pulled all of ours off, and my ankle bled for like two hours, I swear! I guess people pay good money for leech therapy, eh? ;)
We walked to the elephant breeding center and saw the babies. They are so cute! You can go right up to them and touch them. They are also trained that if you put your hands together to namaste, they curl their trunks up at you! We ended up in an area of the river where the elephants have their daily baths. Drew and I got to put on life jackets, and jump on to the back of one while it bathed! It's trainer told it to spray us with its's trunk, and also lay down and roll to the side in the water so we had to fall off. Probably the funnest thing I've done and highlight of the trip so far!
The elephants are Asian elephants and just beautiful awesome creatures. Each elephant has three handlers, or trainers, and they do everything with them. From sleeping at their homes, to venturing in to the jungle to collect food, to river baths, etc. we also got to do an elephant ride in to the jungle, where the Nepalese trainer sat on the head “driving” the elephant, and four people sat on a wooden structure on the elephant's back. This is a great way to come close to wild rhinos without the danger. Unfortunately, we didn't see any rhinos this time, but it was still awesome. Lumbering through the forest on an elephants back is crazy. Not comfortable, but very very cool. We even crossed rivers and streams where they just trudged right on through the water! We saw peacocks and monkeys and deer, but again, no tiger. Our guide said the tigers are very shy, and don't let themselves be seen. It's a once in a lifetime opportunity to see one in Chitwan.
This morning after a night's sleep on the hard bed, with our bug net and no power for the last 12 hours, we went bird watching. We took a stroll with binoculars and learned about some different species of birds. I will miss our elephant friends and the tropical heat/animals/sounds of the jungle, but cannot wait to get to Pokhara and start our trek tomorrow!
27.5781° N, 84.4986° E

 October 26th:
Today, drew and I reached our hotel in Pokhara at about 3 pm, and got to wander/explore the city a bit. Our hotel is right in the heart of Lakeside, a busy, bustling, touristy area of Pokhara. Even now, at 10:00 at night from our room we can hear music, parties, etc. coming from the streets. We are trying to go to bed early since we wake up tomorrow to go trekking! Today we wandered down to the water, where they have a large selection of colorful painted boats you can take out for about 300 rupees. (3 dollars). We also did some shopping for handwoven yak wool goodies, and ate dinner at one of the more popular restaurants on the “strip” as you might call it. Our trekking guide came to our hotel to meet with us, and set up a time in the morning to head out.
And now to bed we go! Trekking starts tomorrow! Four days and three nights, will probably write about it upon returning.
0° N, 0° E

October 28th:
It is our second day trekking, and I have some down time to journal! What a wonderful time we have been having!! We woke up in Pokhara and met our guide (Dipak) who came with us in a taxi to the town called Nayapul. Nayapul is where we started our trek, and it is where we will finish our trek. The 3 of us set out and made it to the town of Tirkhedunga around noon. Our four day trek is a pretty sweet set up, there are all these little towns set up on the hills of the Himalayas, south of the annapurnas. We are doing a circuit with stops for meals and sleeping at these little towns. The trekking part of it is pretty neat - there are parts where it's more of a dirt path going up, like the hikes we are used to at home, but even more parts where it's actual stone steps winding up the mountain. The steps are actually the hardest, your legs are sooo tired at the end of them! After lunch in Tirkhedunga, we had the hardest stretch of our trek so far. 3 hours of climbing up, up, up these stone steps, constantly. My legs felt like jello, my heart was pounding out of my chest, and my lungs could not breathe in enough of the thin air. The elevation climb was about 1070 m from Nayapul to 1500 meters to Tirkhedunga to 2010 at Ulleri (the next town) and I think the elevation is what was bothering me more than the thigh burn of the climb. I felt slightly lightheaded with a headache on that first day, and even though there are obviously way higher points in Nepal, and we are taking altitude sickness pills, I still think since I'm used to sea level it was getting to me. For water, the towns have been supplying us with boiled water, called the safe water project for Trekkers. Me being a little paranoid, I sterilize it with the steri-pen…hey, haven't gotten sick yet! Also, the toilets at these places are squatters; a hole in the floor that you have to squat over. It's actually easy, not so bad. On the steep climb to Ulleri we would have to step off to the side for pack donkeys coming down with bells around their necks and goods strapped on them! They don't stop for you! We also passed by several people with guides and porters (we didn't get porters since we are only here for four days). The porters are serious business! These small men with bags and packs the size of them, strapped around their waists and foreheads just barreling up and down the mountain. Sometimes they are even in flip flops! I just can't believe it.
We made it to Ulleri in the early afternoon and had a bit of time to rest and chill. The “tea houses” are not what I expected. They are like small lodges, with an area for eating, an indoor fireplace, and rooms that are separate. The rooms have two beds for us with firm mattresses and blankets that don't look like they've ever been washed. We are so glad we brought our sleeping liners!! At Ulleri we met several fun people, one lady trekking alone from Switzerland, and a couple from the UK who are our age and have been on the road for a couple months now. They are traveling in Africa, India, Nepal, Asia, maybe even South America then back to London! All over like 7 months. Insane, and awesome if you ask me. They were working at an orphanage in Kathmandu for a month before we met them. It's so fun to meet and connect with people from around the world during our travels. Last night was nice - us two couples as well as our two guides played a Nepalese card game their guide taught us, had dinner around the fire and ended up going to bed nice and early.
This morning we got an early start. The views in the morning are absolutely spectacular, before the clouds roll in and block the high peaks for the rest of the day. We had breakfast around 6:30 and then headed out. The trek today was easier than yesterday. Still some pretty good climbing, but not quite so steep for so long. Also, I think my body is a little more acclimatized after sleeping for a night. Drew on the other hand has come down with a respiratory infection, and felt like today was harder just because his energy was low. Poor guy always gets sick with a cold when we travel. He is convinced its from the plane ride, he thinks he can't fly without ever getting sick. I told him he should take airborne and wear a mask next time!!
We arrived in Ghorepani (2750 m) nice and early today, around 11:30 am. So, after a nice hot lunch (and hot shower!!!) we have the rest of the day to relax and recoup. We are pretty tired, but in a good way. Tomorrow morning we are waking up around 4:00 am to trek up to Poon Hill, which is an amazing viewpoint of the annapurnas, and we will be there for sunrise. Next we will come back, have breakfast here and be on our way. The trek to Poon hill is straight up, so will be challenging, but only for half an hour or 45 minutes and we will be there. Poon is the highest point we will be at, which is 3200 meters. That's about 12,000 feet. High for a person like me, but you think about people who climb Annapurna, which is 8,091 meters! Or Mt. Everest, I just can't imagine. It would be awesome to take a plane ride above Everest, which is something they offer to tourists in Nepal, but we just don't have enough time. Nearly 3 weeks here as it feels too short! Until next time.
0° N, 0° E

 December 9th:
We've been back from Nepal for over a month, but, as luck would have it I am just now finding the time to finish up writing about our trip!! I believe I left off with Poon Hill, and so that is where I shall start.
That next morning we woke up bright and early at 4:30 am in the tea house of Ghorepani. We bundled up, because it was dark, it was cold, and we were headed up to Poon Hill, where we were told we would have a breathtaking view of Annapurna and the surrounding peaks. Of course, this is the whole reason people do this trek, is to go to Poon Hill, so as we headed out that morning so did the rest of every trekker staying in Ghorepani! I felt a little like soldiers, marching instep foot after foot, going up stone step after stone step, about 45 minutes of straight stairs in the dark, with only the beams of headlamps. Poon Hill is 3200 meters elevation, and as soon as we made it to the top, and we all stopped moving, I was very thankful for our jackets and hats and scarves. What an awesome moment. Half an hour spent watching the morning sun slowly light up these enormous mountains, standing right in front of you like you could touch them. We were looking at Annapurna south, Annapurna 1, machhapuchhre, Fish Tail, and one or two others I forget! One of the most memorable moments of the trip, spent with our new friends from the UK and from Switzerland!
With a quick stop for breakfast, we continued our trek, this time on the descent. We probably spent most of that day trekking down (and a little up) with lunch at Tadapani and then settling in at Ghandruk. This of course is the sad part about journaling after a trip is over…I tend to forget things like how many miles we went that day, or how long it took. I do know, that going down a mountain side for two days straight is really hard on your knees. My knees are still sore today…when I've had them bent for too long, or try to run, they ache. That's probably not a good thing…
Ghandruk felt the most poor/rural of the villages we stayed at. Complete with hoards of grubby little children running up to you saying the only English words they know “chocolate? Rupee please?” As adorable as they are, and as sad as it is, I've been told these kids are working for someone else, and whatever you give them won't go to them, but will get re-sold by their parents or some other adult they're working for. So…better to not encourage the begging. I also felt that this last night we bonded with our guide Dipak the most. There were less Trekkers staying at this place, and so less people to talk with and share stories with. Dipak was a good guy. Told us about his family, about tigers eating his goats, about wanting a better job and going to college. It was nice to learn these things about him, I felt like he was one of our buddies unwinding at the end of a long day.
On the fourth day we made it back to Nayapul, where we checked in with the official trekking station that monitors who goes in and out, and we had a meal at Dipak's sister's restaurant. Of course I had Dal Bhat. The traditional Nepali meal might get a little tiring after days of eating it, but looking back I wish I could have some right now! A mound of rice, curry, veggies, and bean soup. It's all you need in life. On the taxi ride back in to Pokhara, it was decided that since we had a free afternoon, we should have Dipak show us a few of the highlights of the city, and he was more than willing to do it. He took us first to the Peace Pagoda (an all white Buddhist stupa) that sits up on a huge hill and overlooks Pokhara. We had to take off our shoes to walk up the steps, and had to walk clockwise only around it, like all stupas.
Next Dipak took us to a waterfall called David's waterfall. A pretty impressive waterfall, named after a guy who died while bathing in it with his wife back in the 50s or 60s. Next, we descended in to an underground cave, that the waterfall pours in to. Now that was cool. I have never been in a cave before. It was just as you'd think, however. Dark, moist, echoey. Although this one had little shrines and Buddhist statues that maybe ones in the US don't have ;).
Our last night in pokhara was spent well. Drew and I wandered the main strip, having dinner at a restaurant with a cultural show, then going to have dessert and (my first!) hookah at a different restaurant. We could live like kings in Nepal…eating out every night for 3 or 4$ a plate. But then again, I forget that as a nurse I would make $200 a month in Nepal…
Next morning we board another tour bus at 0730, and spend 6 hours or so bumping along through windy roads back to Kathmandu. This time, we were in the very back of the bus! Squished at the back, where each hole in the road is amplified and we literally jump about 6 inches off our seat. We sat next to a couple guys from the UK, who talked 'futbol' with drew most the ride. They were on their way to go white water rafting.
We arrive in Kathmandu, and alas, Sudip did not forget about us! He was there to meet us, and escort us to our hotel. We stayed at the Cosmic hotel in Thamel. Thamel is like the super busy touristy hub of Kathmandu. Everything is walking distance, but the streets are so discombobulated, that I'm surprised drew and I only got lost once! The rest of that last day included a walking trip to Durbar square, one of the most famous places of Kathmandu, with open street markets, detailed old buildings shaped as you would think old Chinese buildings are shaped. It was so strange to walk inside and on the steps of buildings from the 1500's. Yes, history is pretty cool. In Durbar square, there is a living goddess named Kumari. She is supposedly a reincarnated Hindu goddess that lives in the body of a girl until she hits puberty, then becomes another little girl. It's interesting how they choose her. They subject her to staying alone in a dark room for a couple days, and the viewing of sacrificing live animals, because the real goddess won't be afraid of these things. She also has to correctly pick the garments of the previous goddess. Anyways, she comes to her window for daily “blessing of the people” so we got to see her. No pictures, of course. She looked like a very bored young girl to me!
We walked out of Durbar square to have dinner at a place called OR2K. A pretty trendy, hipster type place where you take your shoes off and sit on the floor, and the lighting is a black light. The food was absolutely amazing. Everything is super healthy and vegan. And delicious! It was on the way back to our hotel from this dinner that we got lost ;). But, we made it eventually.
Next morning we sadly packed up and had a last meal of momos outside our hotel. I bought some final trinkets from street vendors, and we loaded up our bags in to a tiny little taxi, and were off to the international airport!! We had to wait for quite a while at this time, because not only were we early but our plane ended up being delayed. And now here comes one of the saddest parts of my story. The young girl from Alaska, the blonde one I met on my plane ride to Nepal from Singapore, was there again. I was surprised to see her, knowing she planned to stay for a few months, volunteering and then trekking with her dad. As soon as she saw me, a familiar face amongst strangers, she broke down. She told me her dad died in a car crash and she just found out that day. Her trip is cut short and she is flying on the first plane home, through India. This has stuck with me. It's a moment where you're not sure what to do; do I hug her, do I offer words of comfort, do I do something of meaning and worthwhile for this girl I don't actually know, and yet I'm the only person she does know. I think I did a little bit of it all, but all I could see was a girl like my sister, who's whole world has drastically been hurt, and shaken. I think of her now and again, and want her to be ok. From there, to Kunming, China (a ten hour layover where we tried sleeping at a closed Starbucks) to Shanghai, to Vancouver, Canada. From Vancouver's airport we took a sky train to a bus, then the bolt bus to the border, (where I felt like I was going through customs for the billionth time) finally to Seattle. All in all, a super long travel time. It takes a while to get to and from Nepal, this I have learned. But, finishing up this journal and remembering all that we saw and experienced makes my heart ache just a little bit for that culture, those people, that landscape. Traveling does something to a person. It might not register while you're there, it might happen once you've returned home. But I know now that I want more of it, and need to see more of this world before my time here is done.
28° Clear
2224 9th St SW, Puyallup, WA, United States

Some of the dates don't actually match the dates that they were written, but that is because Nepal is a day and a half ahead, so my phone switched back to our time once I returned home, and so did the date entries.  Also, when it says 0 degrees N, 0 degrees E, it probably can't pick up our location!

































Saturday, March 23, 2013

here and there

Well, I would say the last few months have been good to us.  The Eli family was able to have a little ocean side get away for several days, fur kids and all.  Ocean Shores is always a blast.  This time it was especially fun due to it being the off season, and having the beach basically to ourselves!  The dogs wore themselves OUT running in the sand, chasing birds, splashing in water...and Drew and I got to do nothing but stroll and hang out with each other.  Such good time. 


I also ran my first 6k!!  It was the Seattle St. Patty's day dash.  This, I am very proud of.  I kind of started to pick up running again just because, and just to see if I could run the nearly 4 miles without walking at all.  I did, and it was a blast.  I suppose the Irish music and beer post run helped to motivate just a wee bit ;)  Speaking of Irish things and "wee" things, my wee little sister started her EUROPE trip in Dublin and has started her own blog of her travels!  http://europeaneringrace.blogspot.co.uk/  Love this girl, and so excited for her experience.

Annnnd now it's my work weekend.  Working Friday-Monday, 12 hours shifts.  Hope they fly by!  I suppose the perks of being a nurse are my 10 days off on a regular basis, but sometimes I wish I wasn't working on weekends when everyone else is off work ;)  That's alright, I love my job and Drew is always so wonderful on my work weekends, by packing my lunches, making breakfast, and letting me sleep until the last possible moment.  He's a sweetheart, did I mention I love him lots? 


Wednesday, March 6, 2013

"unflattering room" contest





So, in the spirit of recent DIY activities and home projects, Drew and I have decided to enter the "unflattering room" contest through BECU!  Our kitchen is quite outdated and makes me feel sad when I look at the ugly cabinets and ugly counters.  Really, all we want to do is paint the cabinets white just like we did for the bathroom, put in new dark granite counter tops, and add a pretty back splash to the wall.  BECU is giving away 500$ to help people do this sort of thing!  So, here are my five photos of our current kitchen, in hopes that we win :)

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

D.I.Y.

I've been doing a lot of cupboard painting these days.  At least, it feels like a lot.  In reality we've got so much more to do!  Giving your cupboards a fresh look with a coat of paint sounded like so much fun in the beginning, but it is actually a lot more work than I realized ;)  I guess it's still fun.  It's just taking some time.

When we bought our house a few months ago, the only things that stuck out as something we wanted to change right away were somewhat ugly counter tops in the kitchen, and dated looking cupboards.  Seeing as we don't have $10,000 laying around to splurge on new cupboards, we decided to paint them all ourselves.  And again, it really is a fun thing to do, because it feels good putting so much work in to something that in the end you feel proud of and can enjoy every day.  That being said, it's lots of sanding, priming, painting, repeat to where I feel like it's all I do on my days off.  And, since I'm the one who is home during the day time (I work weekends and odd hours), I'm the one doing most all the work.  Things are looking good though!  One step at a time, and we'll have it looking exactly as we want it. 

The first project was turning our linen cabinet from brown to white:
All the cabinets in our house were that brown wood in the first photo, and we are slowly changing that!  The linen cabinet was kind of like our trial and error project, since it was the first one and we had never done anything like this before.  Next is the hallway bathroom, which I am currently smack dab in the middle of:
 Before:



So, in the end, the main bathroom and kitchen will have white cupboards, while we are painting our master bath's black to match our bedroom furniture.  We also plan to install new kitchen counter tops (Dark gray or black), and add a tile back-splash to the wall.  So obviously there will be more pictures later :)

Yep, this is what has been keeping me busy during the days when I am home and Drew is at work.  Oh, and the pink walls in that bedroom you see there?  Drew thinks I should paint those next, but I am actually quite partial to the pink.  I mean, come on, what if we end up having a girl...then half the work is done for us.  If not, Cozy loves it too :)



Wednesday, January 2, 2013

welcome 2013!

Well, I must say, 2012 went out with a bang.  I spent a lovely birthday turning TWENTY-SIX with the love of my life in Seattle.  Sometime I can't believe how old we are all getting.  Wasn't I just 16?  Was that really ten years ago?  And the sad part is, our parents say time will only go faster every year that goes by.  Oh well, I have a feeling 2013 is going to be a wonderful year.  Living each day like it's a gift and soaking up time spent with those you love.  Gotta remember to do that!  Especially as a nurse in an ER, I am reminded of that a lot....anyway enough of the sad stuff.

Birthday was a ton of fun getting to go have adventures with Drew, who was kind enough to take my birthday off from work to spoil me :)  Here's a birthday photo:
And then of course, I did get sick, because what would the holidays be without Marta getting hit with some respiratory illness.  My mom wonders how many Christmases and Thanksgivings we both missed out on, sitting at home fighting a cold.  I was feeling better by Christmas though, and made it out to Anderson Island to see the fam.  I love that place.  I think of it with such warm, fond memories, growing up in the woods surrounded by loads of family, and that small tight knit community feel.  Then, I go back to visit and am so glad I'm just visiting :)  I know I'll never live there again, it's not that it's too secluded or boring (although I felt that way in high school), it's just that I've moved on.  Good 'ol AI will always have a piece of my heart, we are just going separate ways.  Sounds like a break up, I know!  It's SO fun bringing the dogs out though, and letting them romp around without leashes.  They think there's nothing better in the world!

Christmas Day brought work for me, which is alright, you're bound to work holidays if you work in a hospital.  Afterwards, however, the hubby and myself had about a week off together which was fantastic.  Working for a university, he gets amazing vacation time, and, being a nurse, I get long stretches off too :)  We are actually at the end of that stretch off, Drew had his first day back at work today, and I have to go back tomorrow.  It's always so sad, I'm never ready to go back to work after having several days off.  Mostly because I get used to seeing Drew every day!  I don't see him when I work because our schedules are opposite, I work nights.  It can be rough sometimes, but we've made it so far! 
Ugly sweater party at Garret and Steph's place:  (3rd annual!)
 We spent time up at a friend's cabin in the snow, and then had a New Years party at our place.  The party was a success, it was our first real party at our new house not counting our house warming party.  The hot tub was a lot of fun, I'm so glad our house came with a hot tub!  I dunno if I'll ever have a bath again...whenever I feel like a relaxing soak now, why not just get in the hot tub? 
 Taking down all the Christmas lights/decorations was pretty bittersweet.  Bitter because I'll miss those twinkly fellas on our gutters, sweet oh so sweet because that darn tree was starting to shed more than the dogs.  Pine needles EVERYWHERE.  Good riddance you dry brittle thing.  And welcome, 2013.  I'm excited for you...